With the blessings of Gurumahan on 14-03-2009, Chennai chitalapakkam Allayam has organized a meeting on the topic of "Harmony in Family"
Nearly 36 participants attended the said meeting and most of them are Husband & Wife. The agenda for the meeting was "WHAT ARE ALL THE WAYS AND MEANS BY WHICH WE CAN IMPROVE THE HARMONY IN INDIVIDUAL FAMILY"
To start with we formed two major groups among the participants as (1) All womens's Group & (2) All Men's Group
Each group was asked to list out the ideas and expectation required from the other group to achieve the goal of the topic.
Each group has listed out the expectation and both the list was read out to all participants.
Most of the expectation are exactly the same as other group pointed out and falls on the same line from either side. Some of the ideas and expectations are given below.
| 1. | Very Polite while taking to each other |
| 2. | Have positive thought always |
| 3. | Spend time with family especially with Wife / Husband as the case may be. |
| 4. | Interact daily with Children about their ideas and expectation. |
| 5. | Take more care about parents on each side and treat both side parents as equal. |
| 6. | Sit together with all family members daily at least for one time meal. |
| 7. | Appreciate each and every action of individual |
| 8. | Spare at least 30 minutes daily to do regular yoga and Meditation preferably in the early morning hours. |
| 9. | Try to form joint family concept. If not at least develop the habit of meeting them often and spend some time with them. |
| 10. | Avoid spending money on unwanted items |
| 11. | Have full faith on each other |
| 12. | Cultivate the habit of reading good books daily,. |
| 13. | Freely share the feelings with each other |
| 14. | Give equal importance to both the partner of life (i.e Wife Vs Husband) |
| 15. | Avoid any kind of argument in front of children |
